Men Are From Mars, Women are from Venus
Fact is men and women are totaly different. The fact that we are different is for a reason. We complement each other. Nope, it’s not compliment – it’s complement. Which means like she’s a fork and I am a spoon – complement each other. It’s like shit and flies – guys are the flies and women are the shit. Notice that why guys hang around women. Does it make any sense?
LoL!!!
Remember this. When your girl tells, “We are so different.” Well, that’s absolutely true. She’s got tits and pussy and I’ve got cock and balls. She’s got a hole and I’ve got a stick. She’s got two big round tits and I’ve got two golf balls in a leather bag down in between my legs.
So we’re different physically. Does it bother you? Well, I am glad women are different from me as a man. I like them to be different. If they were muscular and had a cock like me, well what the heck? I have got all they have then what’s the mystery and interest? So I like women because they are different. They are soft, they are rounded and curvy and they got nice bumps at the top and I love the hole between their legs.
But aside from that, women are different from us men – mentally.
Us guys, we were taught to be achievers, selfish, warriors, competing and never show your weakness and to talk about our problems is be weak. So we only share our problems with the closest and most trusted guy pals. And in public with normal friends, we just bluff our way through our issues in life. We seldom have meaningful heart-to-heart chats unless after we get drunk.
Guys would go into their ‘cave’ or be alone to sort out their own problems. Thinking it through and going it alone is the accepted respectable way for us guys. Guys want to have approval from their dads, their male peers and for that they have to prove themselves and to do so, they gotta demonstrate they are tough and can go it alone. Which is why when women start giving unsolicited advice, the men feels that the women don’t approve of them and think they are unworthy or incapable – so they get pissed when a woman nags them (even if it is out of love and concern)
Typically, me and buddies – if one of us is in trouble – he’ll say a few words and we’ll say, “You’ll be okay pal. We trust you will overcome it man!!” We’ll laugh about to show that we are tough and fuck-the-world man!!! To say anything else or otherwise is to insult him and tell him indirectly – we think he ain’t got no balls and he can’t hack it which would hurt him as a macho man.
Women on the other hand, talk as if tomorrow the world would end and this is their fucking last chance to talk. And they talk and talk and talk. They talk to relieve stress. They talk to express their feelings and they talk to get understanding and empathy from their fellow womenfolk. They advise one another and they show concern by offering advice freely and unsolicited advice. Empathy and just listening helps the women feel supported. They want to be listened to when they have problems, they want attention. You don’t need to give them solutions but you need to listen and give them your full attention.
What the fuck man? That’s the secret. Men need different things, women have to take note – no free advice to a frustrated man. Makes him more frustrated. Just let him be, let him go meet his pals and brag about how he’s gonna bash his boss and how’s he gonna conquer the world and he’ll come back ‘A’ okay.
Women however, needs to talk. Let her talk, listen to her, give her full attention. You don’t have to give any solutions, just listen, hug her, hold her, tell her you love her – just let her feel that you are with her. And after she has vomited it out, she’ll be okay. Women aren’t looking for solutions. They are looking for attention and empathy.
LoL!!!
Remember this. When your girl tells, “We are so different.” Well, that’s absolutely true. She’s got tits and pussy and I’ve got cock and balls. She’s got a hole and I’ve got a stick. She’s got two big round tits and I’ve got two golf balls in a leather bag down in between my legs.
So we’re different physically. Does it bother you? Well, I am glad women are different from me as a man. I like them to be different. If they were muscular and had a cock like me, well what the heck? I have got all they have then what’s the mystery and interest? So I like women because they are different. They are soft, they are rounded and curvy and they got nice bumps at the top and I love the hole between their legs.
But aside from that, women are different from us men – mentally.
Us guys, we were taught to be achievers, selfish, warriors, competing and never show your weakness and to talk about our problems is be weak. So we only share our problems with the closest and most trusted guy pals. And in public with normal friends, we just bluff our way through our issues in life. We seldom have meaningful heart-to-heart chats unless after we get drunk.
Guys would go into their ‘cave’ or be alone to sort out their own problems. Thinking it through and going it alone is the accepted respectable way for us guys. Guys want to have approval from their dads, their male peers and for that they have to prove themselves and to do so, they gotta demonstrate they are tough and can go it alone. Which is why when women start giving unsolicited advice, the men feels that the women don’t approve of them and think they are unworthy or incapable – so they get pissed when a woman nags them (even if it is out of love and concern)
Typically, me and buddies – if one of us is in trouble – he’ll say a few words and we’ll say, “You’ll be okay pal. We trust you will overcome it man!!” We’ll laugh about to show that we are tough and fuck-the-world man!!! To say anything else or otherwise is to insult him and tell him indirectly – we think he ain’t got no balls and he can’t hack it which would hurt him as a macho man.
Women on the other hand, talk as if tomorrow the world would end and this is their fucking last chance to talk. And they talk and talk and talk. They talk to relieve stress. They talk to express their feelings and they talk to get understanding and empathy from their fellow womenfolk. They advise one another and they show concern by offering advice freely and unsolicited advice. Empathy and just listening helps the women feel supported. They want to be listened to when they have problems, they want attention. You don’t need to give them solutions but you need to listen and give them your full attention.
What the fuck man? That’s the secret. Men need different things, women have to take note – no free advice to a frustrated man. Makes him more frustrated. Just let him be, let him go meet his pals and brag about how he’s gonna bash his boss and how’s he gonna conquer the world and he’ll come back ‘A’ okay.
Women however, needs to talk. Let her talk, listen to her, give her full attention. You don’t have to give any solutions, just listen, hug her, hold her, tell her you love her – just let her feel that you are with her. And after she has vomited it out, she’ll be okay. Women aren’t looking for solutions. They are looking for attention and empathy.
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