Tuesday, July 17, 2007

Indicator of Interests (IOIs)

Recently, one of my kukujiaoman fans asked me, how to know if any women interested in him or not? He was looking for some tips on what signals normally a woman gives? You all know lar, women is a very special creature. Why ar? I, myself also dunno, only know that women are very very hard to understand one. Only themselves know what they want in the end but sometimes also they won't know what they want exactly and get confused. Hehehehe...

Ok, let's get to the point. What is IOIs? IOIs means Indicator of Interests. IOIs refer to signs, mostly non-verbal, that a woman is attracted to you. If you are getting lots of these from here, you can sure that she'll be more than receptive.
  • She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking.
  • She giggles.
  • She touches you.
  • She tried to build a rapport with you.
  • She glances at you repeatedly every minutes or so.
  • If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second.
  • She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something at you said.
  • While walking by, she turns toward you or brushes against you.
  • She says something to her friends and they both giggle.
  • She askes you for a lightt or the time or in any way initiates the conversation.
  • In a group, she is particularly talktive (to get your attention).
  • She is playful and tries to challenge you.
  • She plays with her hair.
  • When she is sitting next to you her leg touches yours.
  • She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one.
  • When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your reaction.
  • She buys you a drink.
  • On her way out, she re-approaches to tell you that she is leaving.
  • On your way out, she asks you where you are going.
  • She invents reasons to be near you, interact with you, or to be alone with you.


belle said...

salah la brother!! where got girls like that wan..aiyo

cc said...

I agree with Belle. I think that's more like if a guy likes a girl. Well, except for the hair thingy (coz that would be really creepy if a guy do that!)

secret lover said...

What about IOIs from guys? any comments?

k u k u j i o a m a n said...

belle: Lol... not like that one meh??*sob sob*

cc: Wah lau!!! Pakat belle bomb me ar?? Play hair nia!!! Tomolo I play my hair for you, k!!!

secret lover: guys ar? If guys smile smile nia, means they wan to tap you jor? Hahahhaa..

Huei said...

She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one.


ok la this is very true..um..to flirt la at least! or to make the guy think that she's interested! =P