Tuesday, January 08, 2008

Road Down to Wedding Lane...

Lately, I have been attending wedding dinners with most of my childhood friends. Buddies from small. Girls that became ladies. Friendship bonds that seem will last forever. I truly believe and keeping my finger cross the friendships will last forever with new friendship bonded along way. But from the last dinner I attended, now I know how my second wife or HHTHJM felt. Fresh in my mind, I still was wondering how friends that we know long ago become strangers to us. One told me that they are not close since small. Just hi bye. Remember that I had this topic with both of them separately. Can't really understand why till felt the pinch of it. Something just not right. Missing jigsaw. Incomplete. Not describing the bond of friendship not strong anymore. I think just that everyone has their own path to walk thru. Either with or without their love ones. But as a friend, a really close friend, we need to learn to let it go. Be there for them when they need us. Can't alway walk the path for them always. We have ours and they have theirs. No matter how, friendships are forever. I always believe ideologically, a friend will alway stay a friend for life. Hopefully. Not sure how true or not. Only thing I can do is believe in my friends...


So back to topic of wedding. What is your ideal wedding ceremony or dinner? Fancy one? Entertaining one? Luxurious one? As for me, I think I will go a simple and easy one with the agreement from my future spouse of course!!! Hahahaha... Some people go thru many hassles and hu-ha trying to "beautifying" their wedding ceremony and dinner to be a very very memorable one. I don't blame them. Maybe I'm LAZY or SIMPLE MINDED guy. Hahahaha... I believe everyone wants their wedding to be memorable one. Who don't want? I prefer a smooth, simple without much hu-ha from all parties involved and of course without problems arise after the wedding dinner and ceremony. Don't like unwanted open ties in the end. That's my ultimate hope!!! Hahaha... no burden mah. No need people complain why no booze, why food sucks, why the hall so small and this and that!!! Or why this people give more or that gave less!!! One of my friend suggested ticketing system, so everything will be more organize and easy to run!!! *fainted* Good idea,bro!!! Just my spouse and me spending quality time together at our HONEYMOON!!! Maldives or Mauritius maybe? Hahhahaa.. dream on, kkjm!!!

Talking about wedding which related to marriage. I not sure WHY THE FUCKING HELL I'm into marriage!!! An early marriage somemore. Weird bastard, ain't I!!! Hahahaha... some people thought I crazy already. Luckily, my parents with me though!!! Hahaha... maybe they tired of looking after me already. Fast fast look for someone to replace them, take over nanny responsibilities!!! I just like the idea of t
ying up knot with someone that I love and spend a lot a lot of time with them. Kekekeke...!!! So, ladies out there, anyone interested or not?? Write to me lor... somemore wait for what!!! Hahahaha... hard to find a guy that want to commit into marriage so early wor!!! Or I just been desperate? Hahahah... to me, marriage is a sacred ceremony. It should be pure and holy as possible with a teaspoon of excitement and joy!!! Wakakaka!!!

Okay, time to call it a day. Time to doze of to my dreamland and play with Zhao Gong jor!!! Kekeke.... Bonne nuit, folks and my loved ones... Ok lar... less craping from me...

2 comments:

joyce said...

KKJM, remember to invite me to your wedding yeah~

k u k u j i o a m a n said...

Lol... sei chai!!! Wakaka.. will do if I do really get married!!! Hahhaha!!!